Feeling Unloved.

Feeling unloved, well don't. Some people really are unloved, simply because they won't open up to the idea of love. Once you get to the point of feeling as though no one loves you then y! ou are ready to open up. Take a trip to Asia, no matter how old you are the girls over there will love you, even if it is only for a short time.

Are your expectations of yourself and/or your partner unrealistic? Do you think that the love that is portrayed on TV and in the Movies is real? Nothing is ever as easy as you see on TV, you have to work at a relationship to make it work, nothing will ever drop into your lap or fall into place without effort. As the Bible says, "God helps those who help themselves".

You can look all over the world, all of your life, for that someone special, and usually when it is too late, you discover that the one you were looking for was right beside you all of the time. My brother, for example, was married at an early age, he now has been married and divorced 4 times, and lived with another 3 women, all of whom were very similar in looks to his first wife, but not at understanding as her.

He left his first wife because he wanted to go out and live like a single young man does not promote love, she never complained. He wasn't faithful to her and drank too much, she didn't know about the other women of course, but she didn't complain, thinking that he was with his mates. But for some reason he wasn't happy with her.

They enjoyed each others company, and it's not hard for a man to fall in love with a woman who will help you fulfill your every fantasy. He gave her and her family the security that they never had. She migrated back to his home country and made a home for him like no other he had ever had.

An Asian woman treats her man like he is a king. She will work, she won't sit around the house and do nothing like many other women do. She will send money back to her family, that is her obligation, but she will earn that money.

There is nobody on this earth who is going to want the exact same things as you do, so learn to take an interest in other peoples interests, in other words don't be selfish, then you will be more able to find a partner, and one day you may even be able to say that you love that person.

Don't think of them as prostitutes, think of them as survivors, and lets face it, you are probably in your 40's or 50's by the time you get to the stage of your life where you are going to go to Asia to find a wife. At 50, you don't want a virgin, and even if you do, you aren'! t going to get one. Who cares if the one you love worked in a bar half way across the world.

These girls in the main are or can be very nice girls, but they are looking for a way out of poverty. They will do and say anything to marry someone who will take them out of Asia. Sure they will look after you, as long as you are good to them, and you can come to love each other. But they don't say "love you short time" for nothing, they will love you as long as you are there or as long as your money lasts.