Top Tips On How To Talk Dirty

Every one can use a few tips for increasing excitement in their sex lives. However exotic, satisfying and loving it is, exploring new boundaries with each other is one of the best ways of making your relationship even stronger.

In this piece we'll focus on tips on how to talk dirty, to ratchet up the sexual tension with your bed mate.

Remember, whilst talking dirty is an incredibly arousing way to add to a sexual relationship, try to keep things light and comfortable for the both of you.

Tip One: Don't Compete.

Talking dirty with your partner isn't meant to be a competition on who can say the raunchiest words.

Just because cursing is how one person likes to talk dirty, that doesn't mean it's the right way to go for you. If you are shy, you may be less than comfortable spouting off the type of dirty talk you only ever generally hear in a porn film. This is totally unnecessary, especial if it is not you style.

You may be more of the subtle suggestion type, offering up a soft moan here and there, and whispering how much your lover pleases you.

Tip Two: Consideration

Just as much as you must be comfortable, so must your partner be. If you know that four letter words turn your partner off, then don't use them. Have a talk with your partner and find out what appeals to both of you, so that you both enjoy yourselves and neither one of you inadvertently kills the mood by making one another uncomfortable.

Tip Three: Let Loose Girl

Allow yourself to enjoy the moment. If you guy does something amazing to your body and you feel the urge to scream with joy, do it! Men love it when a woman let's loose, and they especially love it when they think you can't control yourself and it's all their doing. Oh, and FYI... women are exactly the same way. They feel a certain triumph when their man loses control because of something that they did to him.

Don't be afraid to show your enjoyment of something.

Tip Four: You Are You So Stay That Way

Be natural. Relax and let the dirty dialog flow where it may. Don't try to force yourself to say certain things, or say them a certain way. It will only come out sounding forced and unnatural, and make you both feel weird in the moment.

Just relax, enjoy the sensations and let them guide your talking dirty.

Tip Five: Be Bilingual Baby!

Another great tip on how to talk dirty is to utter those dirty words in another language. If you are uncomfortable saying something in your native tongue, try saying it in Spanish, or French, and see how it sounds. In many cases this can help you overcome the discomfort, as the words don't seem quite so dirty when spoken in a foreign language.

This also adds an extra element of intrigue and mystery for your partner and can make the whole experience feel “more exotic”.

Tip Six: Just Enjoy It

Finally, just let loose and have fun.

Talking dirty isn't rocket science, and relationships are meant to be explored and enjoyed. Dirty talking is just a nice complement to an already exciting relationship, and can open up many new doors for the both of you.